Maaf andai diri ini susah untuk mengungkapkan perkataan 'maaf'. Jikalau betul ada 'nilai' yang tinggi di sebalik ungkapan kemaafan, sebutlah andai benar-benar untuk tidak mengulangi perbuatan tu lagi.
Kehidupan ada naik turun. Tidaklah manusia, kalau kita bersifat maksum atas semua perkara. Ada perkara yang kadang-kadang memang merupakan titik kelemahan pada diri. Namun, andai kata selalu terlanjur salah dan silap, tidaklah perkataan 'maaf' yang wajar kita ungkapkan. Jaga nilai sebuah kemaafan, reserve the word 'sorry' at the right moment, in the right time. Make sure at that time, you will never repeat it again.
When you said 'sorry' on the things that has became your habit, the value of the word sorry will lose its quality. Sorry is a powerful word to be used at the right time. It is a turning point from the bad to the good, from the good to the best. When you said sorry, one will expect you to refrain from doing the same thing. That expectation is not something bear-able to be held on your shoulder.
Talk will become cheap. Sorry will become annoying.
Action speaks louder than words.
Show that you are really sorry. Let the actions speak for itself.
Regards,
Abu Faateh.
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